Still rather ill. Not a lot has changed since my last entry - although my health does seem to be slowly on its way up, which is good. Now I just have to not go overboard and wreck it again, heh.
I can't remember if I blogged about this, but pet has another relationship at the moment. I allow her to have any vanilla sexual relationships that she wants, and while this started out that way... heh. Pet is one of those people who falls into relationships and honestly I was not particularly surprised when it happened.
She has had her boi for a few months or so now, they are exploring a power exchange dynamic where pet is the dominant. I'll refer to her boi here on my blog simply as q, hopefully that won't be too confusing.
Q is very new to D/s and BDSM, as far as I know this is the first time they have dabbled in it at all. Pet has learned a lot from me about how to slowly introducing things in relationships so that seems to be coming along well. They recently had their three month negotiation that I sat in on, so things are going well there.
It's an interesting thing, the chain of command. Because while I have no issue with my subs having their own subs, there are practical aspects to consider. I am high maintenance at the best of times, and at the end of the day if I'm your dominant, I come first. Simple as that. Any relationship that might interfere with that is not welcome.
Which isn't to say I'm draconian about it. I don't mind what my subs get up to when they're not directly interacting with me or following orders, as long as it is something of which I would approve. Every breath and action my subs take is somewhat of a reflection of me, and that means they need to be living up to my standards as much as possible. Unfortunately for them my standards get more draconian the more years they are involved with me, heh. :)
It's not difficult to have a submissive who has a submissive, but having a slave who has a submissive may well be so. I am however not particularly worried, everyone has been very clear about the chain of command and where everyone falls, and that takes about 6000% of the difficulty out of the situation.
Things are very early days and we will see how things go. Q has shown an interest in becoming part of the family unit as time goes on, which is a very positive sign for the future of their and pet's relationship.
I'm sorry if this post is a little disjointed or strange, I'm still quite ill and brainfoggy and so I'm not as articulate as I might normally be. I hope you're all doing well, readers. :)
Wednesday, July 24, 2013
Monday, July 1, 2013
My health has continued its downswing and everything is boring at the moment. So no matter how hard I want to write a blog post, I can neither think of anything to say nor can I just talk about life because the only interesting thing that's happened recently that isn't terrible is that we got a kitten.
(We called him Tribble.)
(We called him Tribble.)